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What Does It Mean to Defuse from a Thought? ACT Explained Simply
If you have come across Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) and found the terminology a little puzzling; defusion, acceptance, the observing self; you are not alone. ACT uses some language that sounds abstract at first but points to something surprisingly practical. One of its core concepts, cognitive defusion, is worth understanding in plain terms; because once it clicks, it can genuinely change how you relate to your own mind. What is cognitive fusion? To understand def
Jul 83 min read


The Winding Path: Why Therapy Rarely Goes in a Straight Line
There is a graphic that circulates around the internet from time to time that captures something most therapists wish they could tell every new client before their first session. The top half shows how we want therapy to be: a clean, straight line from "struggle" to "start therapy" to "feel better." The bottom half shows how therapy actually is: a winding, looping, doubling-back journey through confusion, feeling worse, relearning, introspecting, feeling better, getting trigg
May 194 min read


5 Signs It Might Be Time to Try Therapy
Thinking about therapy but not sure if you really need it? You are not alone. One of the most common things people say when they finally start therapy is some version of: "I wish I had done this sooner." The barrier is rarely that therapy is unavailable; it is that most of us have been taught, in one way or another, that we should be able to handle things on our own. That struggling quietly is just part of life. That things have to get really bad before asking for help is jus
May 153 min read
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